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The Importance of a Will

You might be surprised to learn how many people do not have a will. In March, 2012 a poll conducted by Harris/Decima revealed that 31 per cent of Canadians between the ages of 45 and 64 don’t have a will. Many people would be concerned with that statistic, but others would say, ‘Who cares, I’m not going to be here anyway’. Well, here’s a few things you might want to consider.

Having a will gives you control. Control over who gets what. Control over who becomes the guardian of your kids. Control over who manages your estate. Control over whether family heirlooms get sold or handed down to younger generations. In short, you get to make all of the decisions.

I know many people who hate government involvement of any kind. Well, guess who controls your estate if you have no will (ie. die intestate)? That’s right, provincial legislation controls how your estate will be divided, and the government gets to decide who will raise your kids.

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I know someone who is widowed, has 2 estranged kids, no will, is worth $1M, and hates giving money to the government. Since he hasn’t spoken with his kids in ages and likely doesn’t know where they are (and vice versa), if he dies his kids will likely never even be informed. Since he has no other family, if his kids are not located, his wealth will eventually go the government… exactly what he would not want. And that’s after the Public Trustee gets paid to settle his estate, since there may be no one else to step in as Administrator. Even if you have no family to leave your estate to, you could still leave your wealth to one or more charities… if you have a will. No will, no control.

Many wills that I read are quite simple: the estate is split amongst a handful of beneficiaries, family members most often. Perfectly fine. Other wills are more detailed, leaving items of sentimental value to certain friends and family. Again, perfectly fine. At least there’s a will… control.

People often assume that it’s more difficult to settle an estate when there’s no will and, for the most part, that’s an accurate assumption. Due to privacy laws, third parties, like banks, will provide no information, sometimes refusing to even acknowledge if a bank account exists, let alone tell you the balance. This makes it hard to generate a list of assets & liabilities when applying for Letters of Administration, and the person applying may even need to post a bond. But, there’s a bright side (no, I’m not being facetious). When there’s no will everything gets sold, and there’s no question about who gets what… everything is clearly spelled out in the Estate Administration Act. It really is that clear cut. But, getting back to the guy with $1M and 2 estranged kids, since the Administrator will have no access to the deceased’s bank account, I wonder how much of his own money he’ll have to spend trying to find the kids.

Gregg Medwid is the owner and president of Executor Support, a firm based in Coquitlam, British Columbia, with expertise assisting executors and administrators in settling estates. The project management expertise and customer service focus Medwid brings to Executor Support ensures questions are answered and help is given when it is most needed.

This article is in no way intended to substitute for competent legal advice.

(Source for statistics: CNW Canada Newswire, May 9, 2012, “CIBC Poll: Nearly one third of Baby Boomers don’t have a will”)

Gregg Medwid, Owner
Executor Support
gregg@executorsupport.ca
604-999-2106
http://www.ExecutorSupport.ca

What Is A Funeral Director?

People know that a funeral home and its funeral directors assist families with preparing and providing final services, whether they are in the form of a funeral, memorial service, graveside service or direct cremation. But they do not know what a funeral director is and who they are as individual people.

A funeral director is a very special person; there can be no doubt about it. Who else deals with the subject of death, and ONLY the subject of death every single day? Most individuals and families in our society today are anxious about the subject of death. They will avoid the topic, and are unfortunately often completely uninformed on the topic. This is only made worse when a death occurs in their family. They don’t know who to call and have no idea of the steps involved in making the final arrangements.

The funeral director is a professional who is trained, not only to provide a service to the family, but who is also able to help guide the family; provide them with various options available, and walk with them throughout the decision making process. Imagine if you had to deal with death every single day of your life! It takes a special individual, filled with knowledge, professionally trained and certified, completely empathetic for the family, and with ultimate respect for the deceased.

The funeral director is your family’s professional ally to help guide you through the maze at such a very difficult time for the family. At Alternatives Funeral & Cremation Services, our funeral directors will come to see you in your own home to help you understand the options available and guide you to make the decision that best suits your family. It is not just a more convenient approach, in that you don’t have to go to the funeral home. What is really means is that when you need to make such difficult decisions, you are in your own home, sitting around your kitchen table, under your own roof. It’s in your home that you are most comfortable and emotionally safe. Plus by being in your home, you remain in charge.

At Alternatives we pride ourselves on establishing this business model when we opened our doors in 1992. Virtually every family has and continues to tell us that being in their own home has made all the difference for their comfort, security and satisfaction. They have also told us they would not have anticipated how much of a difference it was for them by not having to go to a funeral home to make the arrangements.

There is a lot to know and we offer an educational presentation that is NOT a sales pitch. You learn about the procedures that must be followed when a death occurs in a hospital, care facility or a private residence. You also become familiar with the law with regard to who has the legal right to make decisions on behalf of the deceased. You’ll be informed regarding the options available for services; the important role the doctor has in the process; the difference between a death benefit and survivor’s benefit; and much more.

This one hour presentation is available at no charge for your organization, seniors residence, church, library or recreation centre, as well as for professional allies such as social workers and hospices.

If you are interested in either attending or hosting this very helpful and informative education presentation, please contact Michael Godin, Director Community Relations, at Alternatives Funeral & Cremation Services at 604 857 5779.

Michael Godin
Director Community Relations
Alternatives Funeral & Cremation Services
P: 604 857 5779

6 Important Steps to Take Before the Funeral

Making final arrangements is not an easy task, especially when a death has occurred.

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Here are some important steps to take, particularly at time of need:

  1. Contact family members to make them  aware
  2. Know the final wishes of the Deceased: Funeral or Memorial Service, No Service, as well as Burial or Cremation
  3. Call your chosen funeral home to arrange an appointment
  4. If applicable, call your church to inform the Pastor or Priest and to arrange a date and time for the preferred service
  5. When meeting with the Funeral Director, ask them to co-ordinate the Funeral or Memorial Service with your church and, if applicable, the cemetery
  6. Before you meet with the Funeral Director, you will need to gather the following information about the Deceased and provide it to them:
  • Full legal name (including Maiden name, if applicable)
  • Date, place and time of death
  • Doctor’s name, address, and phone number
  • Name and birthplace of parents
  • Social Insurance Number
  • Citizenship Card (if applicable)
  • BC Card Card
  • Executor name and phone (if applicable)

The above information is required to be gathered and submitted by the funeral home to Vital Statistics. This forms the first part of what must be submitted, the second being the Medical Certification of Death that must be provided to the funeral home by the doctor. Once both elements are submitted to Vital Statistics, the Death Certificate(s) and Burial or Cremation permits are prepared and issued.

This article is in no way intended to substitute for competent legal advice.

Michael Godin
Director Community Relations
Alternative Funeral & Cremation Services
Em.godin@myalternatives.ca
P: 604-857-5779

Behind the Scene of the Funeral Home

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In an effort to help families understand the steps that are necessary in order to make final arrangements, whether when a death occurs or to plan ahead, Alternatives Funeral & Cremation Services offers informative educational seminars.

These helpful presentations will give you a better understanding of what is involved when making final arrangements: the legal requirements and the practical considerations. Once you have attended these seminars, you will be better informed and able to make decisions that are appropriate for you and your family, no matter which funeral services provider you choose.

Our seminars provide attendees with ample time to ask questions during the presentation, and if preferred, our presenter will remain on site after the seminar for private questions. In addition, you will also be provided with information handouts.

We provide these educational seminars for both the general public and our allied professionals, including clergy, social workers, palliative care staff, hospices, and seniors residents ranging from independent living residences to long term care facilities. In addition, we provide the seminars at no charge and will come to your neighbourhood from Horseshoe Bay to Hope.

Here’s an example of recent and upcoming seminars:
June 2012 Municipal Pension Retirees Association – Langley Chapter
July 2012 Rotary Club – New Westminster
September 2012 Municipal Pension Retirees Association – Burnaby Chapter
October 2012 Langley Lodge – Community Wide Presentation
October 2012 TD Price Waterhouse – Abbotsford
October 2012 Auburn Residence – Chilliwack
November 2012 Municipal Pension Retirees Association – North Shore Chapter
January 2013 International Training in Communications – Burnaby Club
February 2013 Freedom 55 Financial – Vancouver

Here are some comments from people who have previously attended one of our seminar presentations:
“This presentation was very well done. I really appreciated the careful sensitivity you used.”
“I would recommend this information session as it has information that everyone should know.”
“The seminar presenter had easy to understand explanations of the various steps and services.”
“Excellent talk. Very clear.”
“Very well delivered seminar with a personal touch and interesting details for a tough time.”

“Information was VERY complete.”
If you would like more information on this seminar or if you would like to arrange for the presentation at your church, school, seniors’ residence, library, etc. feel free to contact me, Michael Godin.  You can reach me at 604-857-5779 or via email: m.godin@myalternatives.ca or simply just drop a comment below.

Happy Thanksgiving, everybody!

Michael Godin
Director Community Relations
Alternative Funeral & Cremation Services